Before – After – After The After

- April 24, 2025
- Posted by Charmaine The seasons of life The lessons of life I believe and have always believed that life get’s to be good, great in fact.

Yet at times, life needs to share a few things with you first so that it can be. Relationships have been my biggest lesson in life (romantic relationships) Not sure why I was the chosen one to learn it to the depths, but I was.

I’ve taken it all on and I could write a whole book just on relationships alone. We are not taught how to be in relationship. What to look for, what to accept, what not to accept. For many we fall into default relationships because we feel we need to be in one to feel some what successful and well yes, less alone. We learn from witnessing as well as figuring it out as we go through life.

Some learn quickly, others (like me) not so quickly. I held so much shame around relationships. From what I thought I should know about them, To what others told me I was like in relationships (both...